How Much Should You Tip? Your Holiday Guide

Why Holiday Tipping Matters

The practice of tipping may not be uniquely American, but no one does it quite like we do — especially during the holidays. December has long been a season of generosity, when we say thank you to the people who keep our lives running smoothly. But with prices up and household budgets tighter, many wonder: How much is appropriate? This guide breaks down the essentials so you can show appreciation with confidence.

Who to Tip — and What’s Appropriate

Not every helper in your life can accept cash, and not all deserve the same amount, so thoughtful choices matter. For letter carriers, USPS rules allow small gifts valued at $20 or less, with gift cards permitted as long as they have no cash value. Delivery drivers—FedEx, UPS, and Amazon—have varying policies, so modest gift cards or care packages are safe bets.

Those who directly support your home and routine — grocery delivery workers, newspaper carriers, trash and recycling collectors, and regular cleaners — typically receive $10–$30, or the cost of one visit for in-home services.

Personal Service Providers: Tailor Your Thanks

From teachers and hairstylists to pet groomers, dog walkers, and personal trainers, the holiday tip often matches the value of one session. Caregivers, who provide deeply personal support, often receive one week to one month of pay, depending on policies.

And if you live in a building with attendants, superintendents, or handypeople, check your association’s rules first — many offer pooled holiday funds.

Gratitude Goes Beyond Cash

When tipping is prohibited — think teachers, caregivers working through agencies, or municipal workers — a heartfelt note or small thoughtful gift still creates meaningful connection. At its core, holiday tipping is less about the number and more about acknowledging the hands that help carry your year.