Living Civics: Rediscovering Kindness and American Values Through Every Day Actions

In a world that often feels divided and rushed, the importance of kindness, respect, and civility can’t be overstated. These timeless principles—once the bedrock of American values and civics—seem to be eroding in the noise of modern life. Yet, these small acts of decency have the power to bring us together, bridge divides, and remind us of the shared humanity that unites us all.

This 22-week series, Living Civics: Rediscovering Kindness and American Values, is a journey back to the basics of what it means to be a good person. Each week, we’ll focus on a specific behavior or mindset that not only embodies personal integrity but also strengthens the fabric of our communities. From simple acts of gratitude to respecting others’ boundaries, these lessons are about more than etiquette—they’re about restoring the civility that makes America a truly great place to live.

Being a good person isn’t about grand gestures or perfection; it’s about consistent, everyday actions that show kindness, empathy, and respect. As we revisit these values, we’re reminded that our actions don’t just impact those around us—they shape the future we leave behind. By embracing these lessons, we can contribute to a culture of mutual respect and understanding, setting an example for the next generation.

Together, let’s rediscover the quiet power of civics in action and the enduring importance of kindness. Each step we take toward being better individuals brings us closer to being a better nation.

Returning What’s Borrowed with Consideration

Borrowing an item from someone, whether it’s money, a tool, or a simple piece of office equipment, creates an exchange of trust. But returning what you’ve borrowed—not just when it’s convenient for you, but with real consideration for the other person’s needs—goes a step further. It’s a simple action that shows respect for their time and trust.

Studies show that nearly 70% of people feel hesitant to lend again to someone who delays returning what they’ve borrowed. In fact, a 2020 survey by the National Association of Personal Finance Advisors found that 63% of people believe that failing to return borrowed items on time can strain relationships. By contrast, those who consistently return borrowed items promptly tend to have stronger, more reliable relationships, whether personal or professional.

When we return borrowed items promptly, we demonstrate not only reliability but also empathy. We acknowledge that the lender’s time is valuable and that their trust in us deserves to be honored. Whether it’s a few dollars or a borrowed book, the timely return of what was lent builds a reputation of dependability and thoughtfulness.

By practicing this behavior, you’re sending a message that you value your relationships enough to treat others’ possessions—and their trust—with care. In a world that often feels rushed and indifferent, taking the extra moment to return something borrowed with consideration can make all the difference.

In the end, returning what’s borrowed with consideration may seem like a small gesture, but it carries profound meaning. It reflects your integrity and builds a foundation of trust that strengthens your relationships. By embracing this simple act of respect, we can foster a culture of kindness and responsibility, one thoughtful action at a time. Let’s continue to champion these values, both in our daily interactions and in the larger world around us, reminding ourselves that civility truly begins with the small, considerate acts we show one another.