What Americans Really Want to Talk About This Holiday Season

Holiday Conversations Come With a “Game Plan”

As holiday gatherings approach, a new survey reveals that half of Americans are already preparing their “conversation survival strategy.” For many, navigating awkward questions has become as traditional as carving the turkey—especially among millennials, who say the kids’ table is looking more appealing than ever.

The Topics America Wants to Avoid

Across generations, respondents agree that certain subjects simply don’t belong at holiday dinners. Politics tops the list at 42%, followed by finances (28%) and any comments related to appearance or weight (26%). Questions like “Who did you vote for?” or “How’s your diet going?” are now widely considered conversation dealbreakers. Many adults say they’ll even fake a phone call or escape to the bathroom to sidestep those uncomfortable moments.

Food and Wine Take Center Stage

When it comes to creating easier, warmer conversations, Americans are turning to food, wine, and shared interests. Nearly half (48%) say food and wine are their preferred topics, followed by social lives, travel plans, hobbies, and health. Younger generations may spice things up with debates over wine cocktails, ice-in-wine etiquette, or whether a “budget bottle” belongs on the holiday table. Still, most agree these topics foster connection rather than conflict.

Finding Common Ground Across Generations

While people tend to relate best to others their own age, the survey shows that curiosity about simple pleasures—meals, hobbies, traditions—helps bridge generational gaps. Six in ten respondents say even awkward moments often lead to deeper understanding, and nearly two-thirds report learning more about loved ones during the holidays than any other time of year.