Guests Welcome… For Six Days

Most Americans Tire of Houseguests Before the Week Ends, New Survey Finds

Six Days: The National Limit for Overnight Guests

A new survey reveals that the average American’s hospitality has an expiration date — six days, to be exact. According to Talker Research’s poll of 2,000 adults, “overstaying your welcome” officially begins on day seven, with one in three respondents admitting they start dropping hints when it’s time for guests to head home. Another 22% take a more direct route and simply tell guests it’s time to wrap up the visit.

Who Gets the Longest Stay? It Depends

Not all guests are created equal. Americans are happiest to host their own children for up to 10 days and their parents for eight. But in-laws? They top out at five days, right alongside extended family.

Despite these limits, respondents say they genuinely like hosting — but tight living spaces make it tough. Nearly 40% don’t have a guest room at all, with more than half relying on couches and 18% giving up their own beds.

Holiday Hosting Rivalries & Guest Room Upgrades

With the holidays approaching, 46% say they want to be the home where everyone gathers. A surprising 24% even admit they’re in a friendly competition with relatives for the title of “holiday host,” and most believe they’re winning.

Those who do have guest rooms are sprucing them up: new bedding, décor updates, personal touches — and even new mattresses — to make guests feel at home.

The Joy (and Work) of Welcoming Loved Ones

More than half of respondents say hosting is absolutely worth the effort. As Avocado Green Mattress’s Laura Scott puts it, making guests comfortable is key — and setting expectations upfront ensures everyone enjoys the visit.